Christian ooks on dating
Ever had these thoughts about someone you are dating? Too many of my friends are finding themselves there now too.
I can’t say that I’m an expert on relationships, but if there is one thing that I feel like God taught me during my dating years (and it took about three years too many for me to learn this) it is that you should never settle for less than God’s best.
Once I took my fingers out of my ears and agreed to truly hear what God had to say, His answer was quite clear. It’s not easy to break up with someone that you have grown close to.
“No, this is not the one for you.” After that I made the difficult decision to break up with the guy. But I’m convinced it is much less hurtful than spending your life being miserable in a marriage.
But although he said his faith was important to him, attending church and reading the Bible were not high on his priority list.
It wasn’t until I was fully ready to obey God’s leading, that the answer came.
I believe that there are any number of people that we each could marry and make it work – and even be happy.
But I also believe that we will be happiest in marriage if we allow God to choose our mate for us.
Did those caring, sensitive, funny, godly men really exist?
For instance, one guy that I dated was a very nice guy.