Dark triad dating
As I built my confidence, I also became cocky & funny, prideful, with a very high view of my abilities.
As I learned NLP and social patterns, I learned to be very observant of people, specifically women.
The very “act” of mad or pouty is to guilt the other person into compliance. While many researchers say the The “Dark” part of this Triad is useful in a “short term mating strategy” they would be wrong about the “short” – as most men who don’t understand seduction would be.
They assume because men that are good with women have many partners, therefore the strategies only work for short term relationships.
“Taken together, the evidence points to a clear conclusion: Dark Triad individuals obtain a higher number of sexual partners through a combination of strategies, including enhanced charm and style, ability to read emotional cues from behavior, constant strategizing and mentalization, persistence, opportunism, coercive sexual tactics, and reduced levels of empathy and self-control.” – “Mating Intelligence Unleashed: The Role of the Mind in Sex, Dating, and Love” By Glenn Geher, Ph D, Scott Barry Kaufman The dark triad is a group of three personality traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy.
Further work in the sexual marketplace could usefully pursue interactions (statistical and social) between sellers (Dark Triad men) and buyers (women).”“The two studies reported here indicate that females can identify dads and cads from written dating adverts alone, a key development from previous studies looking at Dark Triad characteristics and mating success, which have relied on male self-reported mating success.While psychopathy has a really bad rap for murderers and serial killers, many of those same traits are exactly how I would describe the average girl. I have “tricked” my son into eating his vegetables for example – a manipulative gesture for sure, but one that helped him develop healthy eating habits.When we think of manipulation, we always think of the kind where someone “controls” another person into doing something self damaging.Basically buying a drink for a girl (offering a gift) in exchange for her time.The gift is used to “guilt” her into paying attention to you, and is one of the major reasons buying a drink for a girl as an opener is a horrible ideal.