Signs you are dating a loser
While everyone is allowed ups and downs, losers can change tones on a dime, shifting from caring to angry, from happy to sad in a matter of moments.
Losers will quickly change their tones and backtrack to get their way or save face.
It’s very important to get away from a Loser at the slightest hint of violence, including verbal aggression, since abuse usually increases in frequency and severity over time. One of the things that might attract you to the Loser is how quickly he or she says ‘I Love You’ or wants to marry or commit to you.
They come in suits, positions of power and nice cars.
Be wary if she constantly shifts moods and goes from one extreme to the other: she may be insecure, immature and a loser.
Losers frequently think they are the most important people in the room at all times.
Yet, Carver cautions, this seemingly positive sign is, in fact, also negative.
It signals shallowness of emotions rather than strength of love.