Who pays while dating

At first — but the newness of it is wearing off, and I realised it’s actually also really tiring, and so, so, so weird. And back in our ancestral years, dating was more of a, “Hey, Lucy from the next town over, I saw you milking the cows really well. I’ll show how you great I am at earning money so we can buy a decent home. Point is: just like sexual consent, buying someone a meal (or receiving a free meal) can also be experienced through the lens of “comfort”, since there are degrees of comfort. And if you want your guy to pay on the first date: Because say, if we’re friends, we’ve known each other for a while and someone finally popped the question, “Let’s go on a date.” And the guy doesn’t at least offer to pay, or show me his chilvarous side, his ability to look out for my needs etc…How are you planning on getting out of the friend zone, exactly? When the discomfort or situation arises for you to use your boundaries or communicate it, then do so.

Let me show you how great of a farmer I can be.” *Proceeds to lift stacks of hay with one arm*Nowadays, roles have shifted around and it’s more like, “Hey Lucy, I would like to make 1.5 offsprings with you but inflation’s really bad right now and we need two breadwinners to make this work. Thus, it can also be seen through the framework of boundaries. (fuck that) Regardless, decide how you want the first “transaction” or interaction to go, and . Otherwise, it’s good to have a think of it and keep it in your back pocket.

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How many conversations have you overheard or had yourself where one friend is complaining to another that the man didn’t pay on the first date?

Rather, there is no predetermined answer when it comes to deciding who pays the bill.

If you’re dating a worthy candidate, the hope is that you and your romantic partner can navigate this tricky topic openly, kindly, and compassionately — thereby breaking yourselves free of antiquated norms and doing, instead, what fits into both of your realities and comfort zones.

The woman in the traditional scenario assumes a following role.

And while plenty of grandmas, mainstream television shows, and traditional dating columns wholeheartedly agree with these reactions, I find it most uncomfortable when these words are coming out of intelligent, independent, hardworking females mouths, who not only consider themselves feminists with a capital F but also believe — and preach — that we should be feminists.

All, including that person sitting across the table, nervously asking you questions while trying to make enough eye contact but not too much. If the future is female, shouldn’t we be acting like it?

For the gents out there – why are you paying for the meal or drink? Nothing is sexier than a guy who knows what he wants. Literally or figuratively, next to your list of 36 Questions to Ask Strangers and Fall in Love.

As a quasi-disclaimer slash side-note: Yes, I am straight, and I personally would 100% be flattered by a guy paying for a meal (sorry, I don’t really drink, so that’s not very titillating to me).

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